“...the basis for all healing
is a change in belief.” --
Thomas Troward --
In the realm of
healing, we have a long history of treating symptoms and not necessarily
rooting out the ultimate source of a disturbance, “dis-ease,” or illness.
Indeed, if there is one thing even the best medicine, treatment or
technology cannot touch, it is one’s beliefs. Clearly such therapies treat
illness, but do they get underneath it, to the place where we are already
well, already clear?
As a long-time
writer, writing teacher and personal coach, I have had the extraordinary
privilege of closely studying the mind and its movements over time.
Consequently, I am intimately familiar with the myriad ways we expand or
limit ourselves according to how we direct the mind. It is clear to me
that there is much suffering and distress in our midst which could be
reversed at the change of a thought. Try this exercise: say to yourself --
and mean it -- “I’m so confused.” Then say with equal focus and meaning,
“I am perfectly clear.” Even in this simple exercise, one begins to get a
sense of the vast power of thought. Such a simple shift of thought can
commence a whole cascade of other effects.
Thirty-odd years
ago, I sustained a neck injury in a minor motorcycle accident, which was
successfully treated. Years later, I started having neck and shoulder
trouble which I attributed to the earlier accident. I decided I had a neck
problem. A chiropractor confirmed it. What was the effect of this
decision, diagnosis, and its companion ongoing complaints? X-rays,
chiropractic appointments two or three times a week, a chronic condition,
and a prognosis which assured me of no permanent relief from it, ever. At
best, I could expect to freeze the frame: no better, no worse. And I was
told to forget about reading in bed.
For several years
now, I have been enjoying bedtime reading without consequence, and have
suffered not at all from a neck condition. How so? I stopped pointing to
my X-rays and saying, “See?!” I started swimming regularly and attending
to the circumstances in my life which had me clench. I stopped saying I
had a neck problem. I stopped thinking I had a neck problem. I stopped
being someone with a neck problem. And before long, I stopped having a
neck problem.
“The only way to deal with any problem in life is to
understand how it came into being. The moment you know its process,
you can reverse it.” Maitreya
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Even with perfect
clarity about a condition or situation, we won’t get far if we are bound
by a hidden thought or belief. Such a thought or belief might manifest as
a chronic condition, as fear, as apathy, or just plain inaction. Recently,
a client came to me thinking he was unsure of what he wanted to do, of his
next step in life. It was quickly apparent that he was absolutely,
perfectly clear about what he wanted to do. What he didn’t know was that,
figuratively, he was trying to move while strapped down. I used this
analogy: it was as if for years he’d been in-patient, in bed, restrained.
Having restored himself to his native wholeness, he was ready to get up
and walk. But try as he might, he could not make a move. Our session
focused on finding the hidden source of the restraint and removing
it.
Often I ask a client
to do some writing exercises prior to coming to a session. Time and again
I see evidence of the deep wisdom in each of us in these writings and in
the session itself. To “know that you know” is a most powerful first step
in shedding any one of a number of restraints. How often do we find
ourselves walking around saying, “Oh, I don’t know...?” Consider that with
every such utterance, we actually add another brick to the foundation of
the structure of not knowing -- just the structure we say we want to
eliminate! Fast from such statements -- or negative affirmations, if you
will -- as “I don’t know.” “I can’t do it.” “I’m so sick.” “I have a bad
back.” Then watch your circumstances begin to shift.
One must have the
intention to be well, clear, happy, etc. You reach a destination --
Sausalito, say -- when you set one; otherwise, you circle aimlessly, or
end up in Schenectady! Intention is a magnet. It sets a course. It pulls
for its own fulfillment. Take a moment to close your eyes and visualize
the preferred condition of a situation that is currently dogging you.
Formulate your intention from that. I once ended a week of torturous,
confusing indecision by saying, “By 3 p.m. today, I will be clear,” then
letting the whole thinking process go. Once I’d let it go, I realized I
needed one more piece of information (the decision involved others). I
made a phone call, got the information I needed, then peacefully went
about my day. Sure enough, by the appointed hour, I knew what action to
take.
If we want to drive
to Sausalito or St. Louis, we get a map. We know there’s a route, but we
don’t know the route until we pick up the map and study it. Consider your
thoughts and words are your map to your root beliefs, to the source of
your experience and conditions, as well as your clarity, confusion,
wellness and illness. How often do we listen to and observe ourselves
completely impartially, without judgment? Rather than “thought control,”
this is a process of bringing to awareness that which we are unwittingly
setting or keeping in motion. Get curious about the nature and pattern of
your thoughts and words. In the words of the enlightened master Maitreya,
“The only way to deal with any problem in life is to understand how it
came into being. The moment you know its process, you can reverse it.”
Abandon the illusion
of confusion. Begin by knowing that you know -- even if you can’t yet see
that you know -- then watch the details of your condition take on a new
light. They will cease to appear as obstacles or discouraging symptoms,
and begin to appear instead as clues, pointers and helpers providing
invaluable information. You will begin to recognize them as the signs and
the means by which you will reach your destination. In other words, start
being clear and intentional in this way -- practice it -- and watch the
path straighten before you.
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Kathryn Deputat’s work with the mind
has spanned two decades. Drawing on her highly attuned
listening and intuitive gifts, she coaches those who seek to
cultivate clear, authentic expression -- in life or in
writing. Her teaching and consulting practice is based in
Boston, MA. Kathryn may be reached at http://www.claritywork.com/ or (617)
522-2737. |  |
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